we are both top, so sex is not super exciting for both and im the one usually making more effort for the sake of our intimacy, cuz i guess i like him slightly more physically. so we end up not having much of anything, im trying to push threesomes with a bottom n stuff, but so far he doesnt seem too keen.
when i try to leave he seems to put more effort in us but i dont feel its really genuine, he just doesnt want me to leave, yet cant keep up much with his 'efforts'.
logically i know we are doomed, but im still hoping our bond will improve and involving bottoms for hook ups will strengthen our intimacy.
Maybe some of you have experience with this type of dynamic?
for the rest we are fine together and like each other to be more than friends, but i ll admit its weird to have a partner that doesnt desire you in bed... yet, i know thats how most relationships end up eventually - and even im the type to get bored of regular sex with a life partner - so a part of me tells me i could ignore this aspect if the rest is good enough...
any wise men who experienced this in here? and how has it worked out for you?