u/DiiamondFox

You guys😭 I’ve never cried so much because of a movie. This might be my new favorite movie of all time😭

I (24F) started talking to this guy (34M) a month ago. He’s a walking green flag but once we got to the conversation about what we want in the future, I learned that he has a 7yr old (mom has full custody). He thought I already knew because he told a few of our friends. He didn’t wanna tell the woman what to do with her body so he didn’t ask for an abortion. Apparently, the kid was a trap baby and he mentioned how he doesn’t want to be an absent father but at the same time he says that if he could go back in time he wouldn’t have that kid. I feel like saying that is a red flag?

He also lives in Cleveland, Ohio and I’m in Chicago… I hypothetically, if we end up together, I’d be the one moving to Cleveland because he has a stable job that he can’t find in Chicago. I feel like that place is so boring ☠️😂

Not sure if I should just let him go or I’m just looking for red flags? I’ve never met a gentleman until I met him but I don’t know if I can look past the fact that he has a kid.