How do you move on when you thought they were the one?
I had a breakup on 10th May. During the first week, I kept trying to contact her through emails and mutual friends because I wanted to fix things and sort everything out, but nothing worked. Her friends even told me that messaging her was becoming harassment and that I should stop contacting her.
What hurts the most is that we were really serious about each other. I genuinely saw her as the person I wanted to marry someday, no matter how difficult life got. She supported me a lot — emotionally, in my career, and even financially at times. We had fights like every couple does, but we always used to sort things out before sleeping.
According to her, I didn’t acknowledge her efforts enough. I tried explaining that even if I made mistakes, I was willing to work on them and make things right, but she didn’t want to listen anymore.
The hardest part is that just 4 hours before the breakup, we were together, hugging each other before leaving, and then suddenly she said she didn’t want to continue the relationship anymore. It was a 9-month relationship.
Right now, I honestly do nothing all day except watch YouTube videos to distract myself. I’ve completely lost focus on my studies too, and my pre-final year is starting this July.