What should I do? [M21, F23]
Been together for almost 2 years.
So earlier in our relationship, my partner told me that she is still in contact with her exes little sister. This made me quite discomforted, and I told her that I would like it if she stopped engaging in talking to her.
She then started to rant about "we only send streaks" or "she is a different person from him" etc. I just really don't like the idea of having contant with any family members of an exes family, no matter how well you get to know them.
I asked if the tables would be reversed, would she accept that I am buddies with my exes brother? She said no "because that's different". Then she procceds later to say "I would be fine with you being his friend", even though I could sense something behind it.
It has officially been a bit more than a year from then, and I still feel discomfort about her having contact with her exes little sister.
What should I do? I know she will get mad if I bring it up, but I feel like it is a necessary step for our relationship to grow. Do I just need to try to put that behind me?
Open for any advice from anyone.