26 [M4F] Taking Things Slow Till I Find The Right One
Incoming long post
I’ve been on this subreddit for a while, messaging folks to no avail. Cause of that, ako naman magpopost to see how things work out.
Personally, I’m not the type who falls in love or wants to go out ASAP. I’d appreciate it if I got to know the person first, either by call or chat. I’m looking for someone who’s perfectly okay with becoming each other's rock, a place of solace where we can make stupid jokes without worries, and a shoulder to cry on when things get rough for either of us.
About me:
- Immediately putting this out there so as to not waste your time, I’m currently working overseas because of reasons, but I do plan to go back soon. Maybe by then we can go on a date if we’re both comfortable. Until then, I hope we can make LDR work.
- I am half-Filipino and was raised in QC and Bulacan for over 20 years. (PM nalang to know the other half HAHAHA).
- I’m pansexual, so I appreciate whatever you are or choose to be as long as we have the connection. I’m putting females first because the fam doesn't know I’m queer, and I don't want guys I bring home to be immediately attacked.
- I'm introverted but immediately become a yapper the moment I know what I can and can’t say. I can also listen to how your day went if you want to vent.
- Physically, I’m 5’8” or 177cm with glasses. Moreno, with shoulder-length hair and a beard. I can cut my hair, but please let the beard stay; hindi bagay pag wala, I promise.
- Ripping the band-aid off here, but I am fat. I used to be physically fit and even fought for my uni, but I had to stop because of several injuries. Going to the gym whenever I can to return to peak performance.
- Working professionally as a writer for an online publication. I used to write movie and shoe reviews, but now I’m writing tech news and phone reviews. I hope to become a published author/novelist one day, hehe. Work might get busy, so I might not reply instantly. Di ako ghoster unlike some people in this subreddit HAHAHA.
- Graduated from the big 4 if that helps.
- Social drinker but I don’t smoke. No tattoos currently, but I plan to get some in the future.
- I really love my hobbies, and I hope we get to experience each other’s guilty pleasures. I am a massive nerd. I love playing video games, be it intense or casual (not mobile games, though). Kakatapos ko lang ng Expedition 33, looking to finish Death Stranding next.
- When I’m not on the computer, I play TCGs, namely FAB and MTG Commander. Outside of card games, I also do D&D and paint my own minis.
- I also watch anime, movies, and even cartoons. Faves so far are Frieren, Jojo, Dune, and ATLA.
- I'm a dog lover, but I also take care of cats too.
- Another love I have is for music. I listen to any genre as long as it's a vibe, mainly rock and metal. Ayoko ng “geng geng” please lang. Favorite artists are Linkin Park, Sleep Token, Tom Cardy, Utada Hikaru, David Cook, and others. (Yes, tito na tito yung playlist HAHAHA).
- I have a dark sense of humor pwede din pang kanal. I can and will reply with stupid memes in chat if it makes sense.
- Lastly, I never had a girlfriend, but I had a situationship, and it traumatized me lol. To that extent, I don’t have experience in that department. I can keep things in my pants and will respect your boundaries; no means no, after all.
- I’m not religious kasi may trauma ako don. I still am Christian, though, and still pray in those silent moments; just don’t expect to see me in church. (I believe in God, not so much in His people, in a way).
- Politically aware din.
About you:
I don’t really have a type per se. If you think you fit the bill and we can vibe, why not shoot your shot? Regardless if you’re chubby, skinny, or muscular (yes, I’m ok with muscular women); inked or not—I'm okay as long as you’re you. Pwede yapper or someone who appreciates each other’s silence and presence. Hard cap nalang yung age, which is 24 to 28.
If you know how to cook, that would be amazing because I’d like to help in the kitchen and learn a thing or two. Ang pinaka weakness ko, I guess, is yung marunong kumanta kasi panget boses ko.
If things don’t pan out well between us, I do hope we can still be friends or end things amicably. As mentioned earlier, ayoko ng feeling Danny Phantom.
Uy! Nandito ka pa. Why not send a message? I’d be happy to get to know you. If you want to trade photos ASAP ok lang naman din sakin :) Hope to get to know you soon.