AITA if I ask my BF if I go home instead of staying the night for a while?
So, my BF (M27) and I (F23) are in a relatively new relationship, we've only been dating for about 3ish months but had known each other for a while before hand. We work together, in different departments, he's in the creative performing side and I'm in the bartending side. Our departments each have separate break time rules, he sometimes gets 15 min breaks every 45 mins worked, or 30 min breaks every 30 minutes worked, and I get the normal 30 min breaks every eight hours worked. As a bartender I feel like my job is kind of physically demanding, from not being allowed to sit during my shift so I'm on my feet/running around all day, to constantly moving heavy beer kegs, or shaking 100+ cocktails during my shift. Not to discredit his job, being in entertainment's side, having to wear makeup and costumes all day is physically demanding as well especially being on his feet most of the day too.
Here's where I may be the AH. Usually after work my BF gives me a ride either to my house and we sleep in our own beds or we go to his and I spend the night after we unwind with some video games and a couple of drinks, or indulge in some "tokage". Now, I love my boyfriend dearly, but he is a notorious bed/blanket hog. Because of that, I'm usually on the very edge of the bed, sleeping in very odd or uncomfortable positions, freezing bc he has the blankets wrapped around him, or burning up bc he'll roll on top of me (literally) when we cuddle, and have even gotten accidentally pushed off the bed in the middle of the night. (Luckily that was one time)
I chalked this up to both of us being single for so long, we're both not used to having someone else there. I'm thinking of asking my bf, if I can either not spend the night for a while till my back stops hurting, or start sleeping on the couch instead, if I spent the night. Because of my bartending job, I have really severe back, shoulder, and knee pain (yes even though I'm so young, but I've been in the Food and Bev industry for 8 and a half years), and now with the awkward positions and weird sleeping habits I do at my BF's house, I wake up in the morning to them being so so much worse. I did mention this off handedly to my BF one time and he jokingly said if he does that again, to just shove him over and steal some of the blankets back, but that kind of feels like a dick move if I actually did that. Idk, would IBTAH? Should I talk to my bf about this, or just spend the night at my own place a bit more than his, at least until I get my joint and back pain seen by a professional.
Thank you all.