I just wanted to know why
Me 27/M and 25/F have been together for 1 year and we had a small argument last night. We both work full time but im a little more flexible in my working arrangement. Normally we go about our work, our day, we text throughout the day and have a call before we go to bed from around 9.30-10.30/11 and usually we watch an episode of whatever to unwind and prepare for bed. Last night, she wanted to end the call at 10pm after me repeatedly telling her throughout the day that I wanted to watch this quick 20 minute episode, and we were supposed to discuss what time we were meeting the day after and she told me we would discuss it at night. Night came and around 10pm, she said im gonna go sleep now after we barely spoke for 20/30 mins.
After the call ended, she texted me saying that I let her go to sleep, and i made it clear it was very weird that she ended the call early, didnt want to watch smtg or discuss on when we were gonna meet and she hasnt done that before. I went to bed feeling so weird, confused. I woke up and she wished me good morning and spoke to me like nothing happened. So i confronted her about knowing that I wasnt my usual self and chose to ignore my feelings, and said I wanted to take some time to myself after knowing she didnt really care about the fact that the whole night just happened. The argument escalated, words were thrown back and forth, i critiqued her saying that she didnt care, selfish and pathetic for knowing there was something wrong with me and us but decided to sweep it under the rug.
All I wanted was to know why she didnt want to continue the call, plan what time we were supposed to meet tomorrow, watch something, or just find smtg to talk like we always do until it was a little later. The only reason I could think of her not wanting to talk or watch, is cause when she comes back home from work at 5.30/6 , she will always have tea and sit with her dad to watch something and have dinner together until 9+ which I am very happy she does that with her dad, and I would never want to take that away from her. I just wanted the scraps of time I got with her to be good. Hence the only time I can talk to her properly is from that 9.30-11pm timeframe. We live an hour away from each other so we dont see each other that much, if we do i like to plan so we can optimize the time we have together so we can avoid traffic jams and work fatigue. We havent watched any shows or movies for a long time, we just mainly talk leading up to yesterday. So maybe I was triggered by that fact too. I just wanted to talk and watch something with someone I actually really love. I never really go out much, whether its to drink, party club. I dont really watch movies and shows on my own cause i cant sit through an entire movie on my own, i work till the day ends, eat, gym, walk my dog, have dinner and in bed by 10 waiting for her to call me. But the pictures are what I got in return.
TL; DR what would you feel if your girl said this to you ? And how would you act after ?