Cancelled a second date
I moved to a new city three weeks ago. Last week I (29F) went on a date with this guy (41M) that had seen me on Tinder years ago. I was here on holiday in March and bumped into him in the city. After that he messaged me to let him know when I move. I let him know I had moved and we went to dinner which he paid for. The dinner went fine. He tried to invite himself to my place which I refused because I felt he wanted sex which I’m not comfortable with so early on.
He then asked me on a second date. I agreed to meet him this saturday. Yesterday (thursday) I messaged him that I need to cancel because I have so much on my plate due to the move and need to focus on myself now. I apologized and was really polite about it. I guess I also wasn’t that interested in him after all.
He got really mad. He said that ”this is ridiculous” and ”probably should have paid for another dinner to make you happy..I already told my friend I should cancel before you get the chance to. Dating today is ass.” I said ”I don’t know what else say than that I’m really sorry.” After that he blocked me.
What did I do wrong? Should I just have gone to the date even I didn’t feel like it? Now that I’m in a new city I’m somehow scared that I will run into him or that he will stalk me because he seemed furious.