Partner cheated with women of a specific race/ethnicity/national identity and now I can't stand to see anything from that culture and it's killing me
I just need to know I'm not alone, I'm feeling so shitty right now as a result of this. D-Day was almost 1 year ago, and since then I've been feeling increasingly upset by seeing people, media, etc. from this culture.
I feel like a horrible r*cist or something, but I never, ever felt this way before D-Day. I was even interested in this place, wanted to go there someday, went out of my way to watch shows and try food from that culture. Now, I feel angry when I see it or hear things about it. My chest burns with hate.
And I know, I do know, that it's not their fault. I 100% know that. It's my partner's fault. But I hate how my perception of something has changed because of his actions. I'm just wondering if anyone can relate. Thank you <3
u/Direct_War_1218 — 3 days ago