u/DirectionComplex3346

I hate it when my father is around

Please don't get me wrong, I've never had the courage to say this to someone. I'm an architect in the making, I live with my parents and my dad stoped working, he's in his 60's but my mom still works, so you will find him home most of the time. A lil about him, he is financially present but emotionnally not, as I grow up I realize that my mom did the wrong choice, he doesn't play his role as a father and as a husband, as I said he gives money and afford for our livings. When I'm at school, I'm good but when I'm home, I just don't appreciate his presence. Even though I respect him and obey. As I remember what he has done to my mom and how he is vulgar and hypocrite cuz the person you will see outside isn't the same at home, at home he is isolating himself and became peaky specially these last years. But afterall, I respect him, but really can't compassionate. How to cope with this?

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u/DirectionComplex3346 — 5 days ago

life is simple jaja

https://preview.redd.it/9744dc2hkv4h1.jpg?width=736&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0bcce260112328ae2be6e34c060f35d5fab64113

I walk through life with my eyes wide open, watching how love has somehow become a ghost in our societies, buried under red pill bitterness and peak feminism, until even starting to love feels like declaring war instead of seeking someone to complement you, to be there, to hold you as a full package... and yes, we all have our own life's work, our private battles to fight, our mountains to climb alone but that doesn't mean we should climb them in silence, without someone who knows our exhaustion, who sits at the base of the mountain not to carry us but to remind us why we climb, because needing that supportive side isn't weakness, it's the quiet truth we keep forgetting: love was never meant to be a battlefield, but a soft place to lay your armor down.

Have a nice day mates

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u/DirectionComplex3346 — 8 days ago