19M who’s never been on a date or any relationship found a old high school friend on facebook.
I have never been in a relationship in my life and frankly at-least most of my life i didn’t think it was possible for me to be in a relationship. i am 5’9 hairy and already have a dad bod going for me.
So i met this girl freshman year and immediately thought when seeing her that it was impossible for her to even look near me, at the time i have a man bun with a hat over it and I’m a very recognizably ugly, awkward, shy and quiet unless im talking with my friends who happen to have the same class with me and this girl and she is i would say the prettiest girl in that school and she definitely has great sense of humor.
a couple weeks into the year, this girl just starts smiling and waving at me when i come into class and says hey (my name) in a very flirty way, of course me awkward and confused i smile awkwardly and wave back then sit down. Everyone saw btw including my friends and there all hyping my up and stuff. I obviously think she playing with me in this cruel way to make me look awkward. She starts doing this every other day and every time she does it i start to slowly ignore her.
Around the end of that year she literally comes up to me at the end of the day as were outside waiting for buses the said she thinks im cute with her hand out i do the same exact smile shake her hand fast then i walk away quickly. I swear i couldn’t sleep that night. I have no idea if shes for real I know in the class she talks to this guy i know who i wouldn’t put it past him to ask her to do what shes been doing so thay can laugh at how embarrassing i am and people already think I’m gay enough i don’t need more of these allegations (not gay btw). after freshman year i haven’t had a class with her so she stopped talking to me i know she was dating this one dude I’m pretty sure they broke up or something but fast forward 4-5 years later now i was in facebook and i see her as a suggested friend so i friended her 2 days ago because i think i have become more confident in my self since then. She hasn’t accepted the friend request back i don’t know if she’s doesn’t remember me, shes not on the app a-lot or she just refuses to accept my request. I wanted to know if i should just go ahead and dm her or should i wait till she accepts maybe even try another app? All i want to know is if she was fr and if so o wouldn’t mind trying something out I know shes gonna have to bear with me because i literally have never done this before. But yeah if this goes somewhere i will probably try and update yall.