u/Disastrous-Front9310

▲ 35 r/Hijabis

My youngest brother (17M) is SAing my cousins

This is a throwaway for obv reasons. I'm a (20F) so i know I'm supposed to know what to do but I just don't. So basically my younger brother is allegedly a pedo. He isn't here with me rn, he and my sister (11F) are with some relatives for holidays. And they have 3 daughters, 2 of whom underage. My cousin (18F) told me that she caught him doing something when one of her sister was asleep yesterday night. Her brother (16M) it seems is also involved with him. All of them are minors but she's like 9.

Reason for suspicion is he has molested both me and my cousin sister quite a few times in the past while we were asleep. I thought he's left it all behind. I've talked to him about it 2 years ago but he's back to those stuff again it seems. We can't tell our parents about it as both our dads live away for jobs and my mom has anxiety and depression problems. Her mom lives in a joint family so she's unable to do anything about it.

I really don't know what to do. I'm faraway from them so I can't do anything except talk to him, and I know he'll not talk to me as soon as he hears about this. I just don't have the heart to call the cops on him. And even if I did, I don't want my parents to suffer bcz of it. On the other hand I don't want my cousins and sister to suffer the thing we did. What am I supposed to do??

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u/Disastrous-Front9310 — 19 days ago
▲ 5 r/islam

My younger brother is most probably molesting my minor cousins

This is a throwaway for obv reasons. I'm a 20F so i know I'm supposed to know what to do but I just don't. So basically my younger brother is allegedly a pedo. He isn't here with me rn, he's (and my minor sister) with some relatives for holidays. And they have 3 daughters, 2 of whom underage. My cousin told me that she caught him doing something when one of her sister was asleep yesterday night. Her brother it seems is also involved with him. All of them are minors but she's like in one digit age.

Reason for suspicion is he has molested both me and my cousin sister quite a few times in the past while we were asleep. I thought he's left it all behind. I've talked to him about it 2 years ago but he's back to those stuff again it seems. We can't tell our parents about it as both our dads live away for jobs and my mom has anxiety and depression problems. Her mom lives in a joint family so she's unable to do anything about it.

I really don't know what to do. I'm faraway from them so I can't do anything except talk to him, and I know he'll not talk to me as soon as he hears about this. I just don't have the heart to call the cops on him. And even if I did, I don't want my parents to suffer bcz of it. On the other hand I don't want my cousins and sister to suffer the thing we did. What am I supposed to do??

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u/Disastrous-Front9310 — 20 days ago