was bsf with pwBPD for a very long time. as you guys know, these people are professional button pushers and are relentless until you react. a few nights ago i did react and i blew up on them. i’m not proud of how i acted, i definitely called names and overall lost my temper for a good few hours. i think i was just releasing over a years worth of fear and anger towards them. anyways, i dropped by their house after (this is very normal bc we were attached at the hip) so we could talk. she instead called the police on me. nothing came of it because i wasn’t threatening her nor was i doing anything weird.. i just went home after.
i got a message that she will be filing a restraining order against me even though i blocked this person and completely cut contact after that night bc i was scared of what she would do now that ive stood up for myself. it’s literally like reactive abuse. they push until you pop and then use it in their favor.
is this even warranted? is this possible? i’ve never harassed her. it was an angry one time fight and now she’s threatening to ruin my life starting with the restraining order. i’m exhausted and i want to be left alone. does anybody have any thoughts because im spiraling. she’s relentless