u/Disastrous-Living-71

Pero ayon nga pasensya na ang hirap talaga mag enter/commit relationships kapag these people di nila alam pinagagawa nila huhu. Deserve niyo ighost-sungitan or any actions na will make you uncomfy just like how you did it to me also lol

Sharing my experiences from dating apps, social media and real life

Kayo nag first move sakin tapos ako pa magiinitiate. Baliw ka po ata kuya ikaw nag chat, nakuha mo attention ko tapos nung pasimula na ng convo biglang nag shift ung energy into me initiating (muntik na yon) buti ghinost ko agad.

Nagfifirst move nga kayo tapos after that pag wala na maisip kumain kana ba or such common phrase. Na para bang di yon parte ng routine nating mga tao....you could be more creative with your questions make it divergent. (Gets ko ung simple phrases if tayo na)

Tapos ung iba while amidst the convo biglang di na nagrereply tapos after an hour magrereply. Kaya ako minimirror ko lang rin pinagagawa niyo haha

Also meron pang iba na kahit sinabihan ko na they dont fit into my physical preference sige parin ng sige mag chat tapos paparinggan ako na something rejections. Like kasalanan ko ba huhu ayoko naman isugarcoat ng sobra edi ang plastic tignan

What i mean? know your role. There are people na hindi kayo sasaluhin sa pinagagawa niyo hahaha pinagtatawanan ko lang ung iba. Like gets ko naman na jowang jowa rin kayo like me rin pero hindi ganitong energy want ko.

Anyway, while trying to enter relationship never stop improving yourself kasi totoo pala pag sarili mo focus mo at maalaga ka sa sarili mo daming nagkakagusto sayo. Sleep, Gym, Cardio, Hobbies, Acads/Work ang sarap gawin lalo na it improves the past version of you kaya everyday dito ko iginugulgol oras ko most of the times.

i met this guy sa twitter (im 21 he is 20) we've been talking last year pero naputol then ngayon lang nagkaroon ng comms around april.

So, this guy wayback last year we were exchanging nudes pa sa twitter haha damn sarap nya teh lean twink siya tapos around 6 inch tite ang pinakamaganda is malapit lang siya sakin so anytime kapag want nya he can fuck me (we're both virgin).

Last year hindi P siya madaling araw magreply around 10 pm - 11 pm pa and gising ako ng mga ganyang oras. Pero now huhu around 12:30 pm and gising siya until 5 am eh ako sleeping hours ko na yan hahahahah tapos minsan uncertain pa kung kelan nag oonline (usually 1-2 day siya wala).

We exchanged nudes and do video call nagjajakol siya while i play my ass hahaha kaso ito nga kasi midnight person siya and i want to spend more time with him hahaha he's on different level kapag libog siya to the point na he keeps on sending and sending until he cums.

ang funny lang honestly kasi mostly sa grindr, twitter (alter) and some dating apps they like to call themselves na goodcatch sila tapos when you trade faces gurl mas pangit pa sa hito ang mukha not even fitting conventionally attractive face.

Hindi ba dapat subjective ang word na yan?

siguro ako lang naman pero being born as bading nagpapasalamat nalang ako sa mga nakikita ko sa tiktok lalo na ung vid na nakita ko na nagbreak sila dahil di binilhan ng donut and even the girls are weird in that comments cause wdym kasalanan pa ng guy na di siya binilhan eh kung tama lang naman pera nung guy nung araw na yon.

oo naman mataas rin naman standards natin as gays diba di nga tayo napalag sa kapwa pangit eh pero mas malala pa pala sa straight relationship kasi wdym sa girls kailangan you do the bare minimum (kahit di naman bare minimum), tapos high maintenance ka dapat kahit estudyante pa kayo pareho na umaasa pa kayo sa fam, tapos pag di mo nabilhan magcacause ng away like it's so immature and what's more scary is ung thing na normal lang sayo biglang hindi sakanila tapos magpaparinig sa tiktok. Well di lang girls ah pero boys as well body shaming sobrang lala rin naman and some of them batugan at nangsslut shaming pa.

siguro in my experiences lang buti di ko yon naranasan sa mga naging past relationship ko kasi lahat sila ay nagaapreciated sa mga binibigay ko and even some of them kahit diy or hindi they learn how to say thank you as long nandon lang physical presence and assurance with them its fine and i forgor nakapaimportante rin na tanggap niyo ang isa't isa. But of course i told myself never date someone na hindi mo kalevel its either unfair sakaniya or sayo.

And heck yeah even in lesbian relationship mas okay pa sila than straight girls idk why?

cheating happens in both sides pero mas malala parin talaga ung cheating na nagaganap sa straight relationship esp. mga lalaki na wala namang face card tho girl and boy can be both toxic in their own ways. Ayon lang