Okay, so my boyfriend organizes raves, and to celebrate my friend's birthday, we decided to go to one of the raves, where my bf was the organizer. All my friends bought tickets in advance and the raves were already full, but my bf got me a ticket because he is the organizer and I am his gf. Me and my friends had a nice pregame (my bf was already at the rave) and went to the raves with our friends. Inside the rave, my bf asked me to join him backstage at these raves. There was a woman I knew, and I only knew this girl because she is the current girlfriend of my best friend's ex-bf. I had seen once before with this woman, let's call her Mia. I had told Mia when we saw each other six months ago that her boyfriend (my best friend's ex) is a serial cheater, and I warned her then that it's not worth considering something serious because he cheats on everyone. So I saw this Mia there backstage, and I asked if they were still together. For some reason, however, Mia was offended by my question and had a panic attack because I reminded her of her bf. I didn't realize the situation at the time, so I went to continue the evening with my friends. After about 20 minutes, I came backstage again and asked my bf to join me for a cigarette, but Mia and my bf just snapped at me that I should leave. So I left, went to smoke alone, and suddenly one of these organizers came to throw me out because I had allegedly yelled at Mia / talked shit about Mia.
My phone's internet didn't work and I was thrown out of this rave for no reason, the ticket for which I had already paid for and my bf didn’t do anything about the fact I was thrown out for no reason. Luckily, two of my friends came out at the same time, so they came with me to continue the night at the bar. A couple of hours passed, and I sent my boyfriend many messages that I was thrown out for no reason and I left home alone at around 7 am. My bf asked me at 6 am where I was, but at no point did he explain where he was. I came home at 8 am, and my boyfriend still didn't tell me where he was. I went to bed and woke up around 1 pm, my boyfriend still didn't tell me where he was. I spammed him with messages all day, and at 3 pm he just replied to me "I don't want to tell you where I am". I was anxious all day, I spam called and texted constantly, until at 7 pm he replied to me that”I am coming home now”. Later it turned out that Mia hadn't lied to others about why I was thrown out, but my bf’s best friend (one of the organizers) had seen Mia crying and assumed that I had done something bad to Mia, which is why I was thrown out. I am currently hurt that my bf’s best friend had made up a reason that I had yelled at Mia without knowing anything, and therefore thrown me out, but I’m also angry that my bf was away from home all night, didn't even answer me in the morning, or the next day, and only said he would come home at 7 PM and didn't even explain to me where he was, why he was gone and why he only came home then.