Do men really leave simply because of s*x?
My husband (24m) and I (25f) have been together for 8 yrs married almost 2. We have an 11 month old baby about to turn 1y/o. Recently my husbands sex drive has been sooo high. He wants to have sex at least every other day. Pre-motherhood me would be soooo happy about this because before, I would typically be the one with the high sex drive. Recently however, I’m ok with once a week maybe even once every other week. I don’t know if it was pregnancy that changed my hormones, motherhood or even medication I’m on but I feel like it’s been more of a struggle for me to enjoy sex recently. Without going into too much detail, I used to be aroused pretty easily and didn’t have trouble with climaxing or moistness. I am still able to achieve these things but it takes significantly longer and feels like more of a chore for me.
Anyways, I’m worried I’m not satisfying my husbands urges as often as I should. He often times will want to have a “quickie” at ~4-5am before work but I say no. I don’t want the discomfort of things being too dry and I hate morning breath 🤣 also now that I have a baby my sleep is so sacred I just can’t give it up. I want to get opinions from other married women and men. Should I be worried my husband will be unfaithful? He’s never given me reasons to worry. I have full access to his phone at anytime, we share locations, and most of the time if he’s not home or working he hangs out with his guy friends who include my brother who I know would tell me if something suspicious happened. Thoughts?