I 20m want to break up with my emotionally abusive girlfriend 20f but her grandpa just died, do i wait?
We have only been dating for a few months however the relationship escalated extremely quickly. At first everything was normal however a little bit into dating she began to manipulate me to get everything she wanted including taking all of my time away from my family and friends whom knew something was up. Every time we hangout she finds a reason to become upset with me no matter how hard i try and her being upset typically involves extreme tantrums, yelling, whining, and isolation. Even if i say no to intercourse, she begins to get upset and say that i don’t want to because i don’t love her anymore and no matter the reassurance, she is only okay again if i later agree to it. After opening up to friends and family i quickly learned that this was not normal and am now planning to break up with her however for the past few months her grandpa has been dying and he just passed yesterday night. I was planning to break up with her today but now i am unsure of what to do, do i break up with her to avoid even more stress on my nervous system or do i wait to be there and comfort her until funeral proceedings are over? i dont want to cause more pain which is why im so conflicted on what to do.