Domming as a trans man
So to make a long story short, I recently came to terms with being a gay trans man after IDing as nonbinary and bi for a really long time (and mostly having sex with women and my transmasc husband). I'm having a lot of fun with a variety of guys lately but I'm mostly doing vanilla stuff or subbing, since I'm a switch, but I've mostly been domming up until realizing I'm a gay man.
There's this really attractive guy who wants me to dom, I tried it last week and while it was infinitely better than any experience I've had domming a woman (definitely am gay), I was really hesitant and tentative.
The amount of nervousness I felt was enormous, and kind of overwhelming (I think probably because I was actually really invested in it going well). It's like the last few years of pretty exclusively domming totally flew out the window in the moment.
Basically I was Googling around a bit and there's lots of resources for topping as a trans man, but not domming and lots of resources for domming a cis man, but not for men and certainly not for trans men. I'm looking for resources specifically for domming men for other men.
I'm definitely open to reading resources for cis women, but all the ones I've found are very focused on humiliation and that's not the kind of dom I am.
Thanks in advance!