Tl;dr
I was in a long distance relationship for almost 3 years with this guy from Germany, we had a fair share of good and bad moments. During the past year I was unemployed and not mentally stable that I always vented on him about my worries and anxieties. I even have a thought of breaking up because I could not see him being supportive.
Fast forward, he transferred to a new apartment and it was a shared apartment. All his roommate are Vietnamese girls which are 7-8 younger than him. I noticed starting this January that he became cold, he always says he is busy, stress, and tired. He started to get angry and irritated towards me and even asked for space. I gave him that space only to find out he is spending time with that Vietnamese girl without me knowing and following a lot of girls on social media.
I really don’t understand because when I asked him to just break up with me so that he can be free, he always says “I don’t know” and “I will not decide”
Could you please give me an advice we are currently in no contact and I am so damn tired.