Just to start we like light bdsm. So I came here because when I google videos on how to I just get porn. Although fun to see I would like some advice from people that are actually good at this or rather practice it a lot. I’m a 35yr old male and my partner a 35yr old female. We have a lot of sex and I know from conversations we have around it that she likes to be tied up and subdued. We have done it before with silk ties and I have gone online and purchased a leather wrist to waist binder. We tried it and I know she loves it, So do I, as I am very dominant and love to have my way. I’m looking for advice on if I should change it up a little and use the tape I have seen and do some real taping up to make it more of an abduction vibe so to say. I would love advice from both men and woman or the likes of.
Now I also need more fresh ideas of how to do things to as we just normally tie her wrists together either above her head or behind her back and insights to what has worked for you.
Can I use tape over mouth and eyes?
Is the tape ok with a massage oil being applied after it’s been taped on?
Will the tape cut into her?
Does it pull when being taken off like duck tape?
Does it leave sticky residue?
I’d really appreciate some help and advice from the professionals out there as I know my partner would appreciate it too
Thank you in advance