What is a safe way to interact with a kink I haven’t experienced much yet?
I’ve recently started exploring BDSM, and there’s one kink that I’m curious about but don’t have much experience with: I like to feminize my female partner.
I am a straight male who had a partner that wanted to experiment a little. We talked a little about gender play and some dynamics, but we broke up for other reasons before we got too into it. But now I want to explore the idea more, as I really enjoyed the idea when I was with my ex. What is a safe way to experiment with this kink?
I’m open to a relationship again now, but I do want to know that a partner will be willing to try this with me. I’m unsure if I really want it to be forced feminization or if I prefer more of a willingness aspect. Like a d/s relationship where the sub is just trying to please.
How should I go about experiencing this idea as a single man? It would be nice to find likes and dislikes tin this kink even while single, but I don’t really know where to start? Are there any rules or general guidelines I should know?
I know that “forced” in BDSM only works when everyone has enthusiastically agreed to the roleplay beforehand. I plan to be clearly upfront with my partner about these interests.
I’m much more interested in learning how to approach this safely and respectfully than in jumping straight into a scene. Any advice or resources from people with experience would be appreciated.
Also this is a burner account so it can’t be connected to my account with personal information.