u/DishLocal1930

I (f19) have had a very rocky relationship with my mother since I was about 11 years old. After being kicked out multiple times and struggling through a relationship I live with her now again. I knew that my mother had a disorder a long time ago but this time around living with her has made it that much more abundantly clear. Not too long ago she self harmed and tried to hide it from me , and as a person who has dealt with that very heavily in my past she did not do a great job at hiding it. Apparently she self harmed because her boyfriend was going to be gone for a week on a cruise. And she didn't want him to leave. I'm diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and my sister has bipolar disorder. It's so clear that my mother has something as well, but she refuses to go get checked out. And God forbid that I bring up her scary mental health. She hasn't been to work this entire week and I know it's based on her mental health. What do I do?