I (37M) split up with my long term girlfriend last year. This prompted me to properly explore my sexuality after years of twisting myself into all kinds of shapes trying to convince myself that I’m straight. I have now accepted what I’ve always known deep down, that I’m bisexual.
I have been seeing a guy for the last few months. It was going great at first and the sex has been great. However I have always been the top during sex so far and he said to me the other night that he feels I’m just imitating sex with women when I’m with him and that he feels like I’m “not gay enough” for him.
This led to a big fight and he apologised profusely but I’m now totally second guessing everything I do and feeling like I somehow need to change how I behave, in and out of bed. Should I just move on and find someone else? He’s made me feel like total shit but I want to try and salvage this if I can. Grateful for any advice. Thanks