Should I go back to her?
I’m 25M and I recently moved to Chicago. After settling in my apartment, I went to the nearby furniture store to buy a couch. There was a girl who worked there that I find attractive.
First time, we had a conversation about the couch and then I told her that I moved to Chicago and the conversation started flowing. We had a nice conversation and she was really interactive to my conversation. Part of that conversation is I asked her about her name and she asked me back about mine which is a positive sign.
Second time (after few days), I went to the store to double check the same couch because I saw other couches in other places and I was leaning towards buying this one. When I first got to the store, she waived at me from far saying hi to me. I asked her couple questions about the couch then I purchased it. The store was two blocks away from my apartment so I told them that I will pick it up with the dolly. While paying for the couch at the register, I asked her if she wanted to go for a coffee. She said exactly this: “for sure you can text me on instagram.” Then she wrote her instagram account on a separate piece of paper.
I followed her account the day after and she followed me back but didn’t text her.
Third day, I went to her store to pick up the couch but I noticed a change in her tone. I noticed that she wasn’t interacting with me as the first time. I wanted to confirm with her that coffee but because she was busy I couldn’t tell her that. I borrowed their dolly and picked up the couch then returned it back to them. I took a walk inside the store to look for something hopefully I can get the chance to talk to her, but she was so busy with other customers.
I went home and texted her after an hour from closing the store about the coffee meetup/date. No response. I texted her after two days to confirm, but no response. I decided to ignore her, but after two weeks my messages were unseen and she didn’t see the stories I posted on instagram. I thought that she might not be on instagram that much so I texted her back, but no response. I sent another text the day after, and no response. I decided to give her a call as a very last chance. Obviously no response. Then she unfollowed my account but kept me as a follower to her. Once I noticed that, I unfollowed her and unsent all my messages.
I have no idea why she would ignore my messages after having a nice conversation? What could have happened? Was me being active on instagram a red flag? I don’t know.
I’m kinda thinking about going back to her store but with the proper approach. If going to her store is not a problem, what should I do?