Two months in
My husband of 19 years moved out two months ago. Last week during a tense discussion I asked if he even wants to be married anymore. He said he doesn't know what he wants. The next evening, said he knows he wants to be married to me and wants us to "fix our sh*t" but he can't see the future so he doesn't know. He also said he regretted moving out and wish he hadn't done it. I asked why he did it and he said it was to get space. That hurt. I asked if he meant space from me and he said no, it was not to get space from me. He could not explain it further. I love him and want to work through this but I feel like he's not telling the whole truth and I can't tolerate lying. He has said a few times that he wants to move back in now, but I have told him absolutely not at this time. He's hot and cold and it's killing my soul.