Feeling guilty about leaving a good boss for a major career opportunity
Hi everyone, I hope you’re all doing well. I’m looking for some outside perspective on a career decision.
I’ve been at my current company for a little over a year, and I really like my managers and most of my team. My boss in particular has invested in me, supported me, and helped me grow as a broker. They were also very supportive when I went through a difficult time personally, which is making this decision even harder.
That said, there are people outside of my immediate team that I have to work with who sometimes make my job very difficult and make me doubt myself. Recently, a friend introduced me to someone at a competitor, and after speaking with them, I was offered a role that pays about $40,000 more, plus a 10% bonus. It would also be fully remote, which is something I’ve always wanted because I’d love the flexibility to travel and work from home.
The role would also be a significant title jump for me, essentially moving up about two levels, which makes it feel like a major career opportunity and not just a compensation increase.
The part I’m struggling with is whether I’m making the right decision since I haven’t been at my current company very long. I also feel guilty because I genuinely like my boss and know she has put time and effort into helping me develop, especially during a difficult season in my personal life. I’m not sure how I would even tell her that I’m considering leaving.
Has anyone been in a similar situation? Would you take the higher-paying remote role with a major title jump, or stay because of a good manager and team?