u/Dizzy_Taro4308

Never posted on Reddit before but hoping this finds people that can help. I’m 27 and diagnosed with BPD and I am really struggling. I tend to get into situationships which never last and I end up being heartbroken and ruining my life after every single time. I don’t really have much family support other then my mum as went no contact with the rest of my family. I have one or two close friends but find it hard to connect with other people. I tend to centre my life round the person I am dating at the time forgetting myself and anything else. Hoping to find other people who might have advice and can relate :( I am worried I am always going to be like this. For example a boy who I’m dating went cold for a day and I literally embarassed myself at work by sobbing at my desk, has therapy helped people? I’m in the uk.