Inappropriate situation with son
Hi teachers, I'm hoping to get your opinions and advice regarding a situation regarding my son. I received a phone call from his teacher yesterday and she said that the art teacher told her that my son showed his penis to his friend(girl) in class. I'm absolutely stunned by this because I have hammered into his head from toddler hood that penises are private and art is his favorite class so he has no problems staying on task. When I asked him about it, he said that she showed hers first and asked to see his. But then he said he isn't sure because he's not sure what is "real." I'm so concerned because I feel like this could be an indication of abuse for either child. His teacher said she was shocked that my child did that because he is normally so well behaved but she didn't seem overly concerned and told me to remind him that privates are private. I'm absolutely freaking out. And of course, this child is the daughter of a very well known/respected family in our community. Please help, I'm spiraling and don't know what to do. Thanks so much. I'm not sure if this is important but my child is much smaller and less mature than the kids in his class, does very well academically though.