She is doubtful after 4 months just before finalising date
So we met around Feb, we connected very well, then met one more time and then involved our family. We kept talking hours and hours over the phone, kept meeting frequently, meanwhile our families proceeded with formalities. Things moved little fast but I still think 3 months is good time. our families now this month they started working on getting dates and planning etc.
Problem is, We just ran out of topics to discuss, we did have few debates but always in friendly way.
Then from last one month, I noticed drop in her responses, I asked her but she told not to worry. She did start responding normally afterwards but again there was no spark or excitement. Also because of external reasons - we are having fewer calls and meeting fewer times.
Now she opened up, saying she’s not able to get that vibe. She feels something is missing. She pointed out one of my characteristics which is bothering her. I told her I’m improving on that aspect but that doesn’t seem convincing and she now says she is not sure, she does think it could be because of drop of frequency of our conversations or lack of topics to talk.
I want to know is this only because of this ? I’m really worried whether she has lost interest in me or it’s just she is feeling like it because of lack of communication as compared to what we used to do 2 months back.
I have no idea how to proceed. Should I try convincing her, setting up more dates, calling talking more BUT in case if she has lost interest then we should better part ways?
(Note - I have never been in relationship before, thus struggling to maintain exciting conversations with her, or basically struggling to do anything more romantic that she would love. Maybe that is the reason?)
Need advise!
TLDR:
Met 4 months back, connected very well, we used to have few disagreements here and there but we sorted out, parents now about to finalise date but now she suddenly saying she has lost vibe (could be because of lack of conversations)
What to do!