u/Double-Lynx-2880

▲ 18 r/AIO

I (21m) have been dating my girlfriend (20f) for a couple of months now.

She has a lot of guy friends which generally doesn’t bother me I guess, but to me she seems kind of flirty with at least one of them.

I stopped in to say hi to her at work and saw she was laughing with this guy Andrew. Good looking dude. I decide to just wait by the door before trying to get her attention.

I see her give him this ‘playful’ look and say “you’re beautiful.” I couldn’t hear what he said back but I see her giggle and hear her say “shut up.” They’re both all smiley. So I get a pit in my stomach.

I eventually talk to her and I don’t bring up what I saw at all but I know she could tell my mood was off. I just told her I’d text her later.

Then it dawned on me later on that this Andrew is the same guy that just recently got her flowers and a gift for her birthday. In my head, I imagined he was just one of her gay guy friends she has since she has a few, so I didn’t have a problem. But now that I’ve seen this guy I feel differently.

AIO or do I have a reason to be concerned about how she acts with this guy friend? AIO if I want her to block him and not be friends?

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u/Double-Lynx-2880 — 1 month ago