u/DoubleAd6717

If you’ve been buddies with a woman for years but want something more out of the relationship would you be willing to ruin the friendship? I’m wondering because I’m trying to figure out it a guy i’m interested in is too worried to pursue me romantically because he doesn’t want to f-up the lifelong friendship or if I’m misreading his signals and maybe he doesn’t like me at all. How do men test the waters and what should I be looking out for?