Newly dating
So, I’ve been seeing a guy for about a month. He is very committed, as he said, and loyal even if he just has a crush. We have been getting to know each other and I’ve started to like him more. He told me he only lost his virginity last year. He’s been with a few people since then. We’ve been texting every day for the month, not all day, but here and there. He seemed like a really good communicator. Last weekend we had sex. The first time, I had to stop halfway because he was a bit bigger. Then, he came over the next night and we succeeded. After that night, he had to move and was going to be up late so I was surprised he even came over since he was going to be exhausted moving. He also had a super busy week ahead with work. I thought we said we’d have tentative plans for Wednesday the following week. So, he was doing a lot that weekend and said he’d call after all of it, but I didn’t get a call. Then Wednesday comes and I don’t hear from him. Hadn’t heard from him, but I thought it was ok since I knew he’d had a crazy day moving. So, I call that night and he doesn’t answer, but he texts me the next day saying that he was asleep already. He said that the next week and weekend that his work is going to be basically all day, which I know to be true. He did share his calendar work schedule. I told him I signed the lease for my new place and that I hope he has a good week. He didn’t respond, which just seemed a little odd because he didn’t congratulate me or anything. I had a theory that maybe we miscommunicated about Wednesday? Maybe he thought I was supposed to call him? But I was waiting on his call. But wouldn’t he have maybe reached out if there was confusion? I just feel like he’s upset at me? Mostly because of the drastic drop off and that’s the only thing I can think of. Idk, maybe I’m overthinking it, but it was strange to go from texting every day to now several days between. I figured I’d give it another week since he said he had a busy schedule and maybe just say “Hey, I’d love to hangout. I feel like I haven’t seen you in a while. When are you free?” If he doesn’t give a time then there’s my answer. I could be way overthinking, but it seems odd. He’s been very about me and it just feels off now