Aitj for feeling like I'm not making any excuses for my weight?
So I 21m an skinny, but I didn't choose to be there are factors to it. I rarely need to eat 3 full meals a day because I get full pretty easily and don't want to force myself to eat if I'm not hungry, my metabolism is fast, I can either eat healthy or stuff myself with junk food and either way I'll only gain like 1 pound. I can sometimes go to the gym, but I don't always have the time or energy for it. I've also just been skinny all my life.
I think all of this are valid reasons, but my older cousin who has NO IDEA what it's like to be overweight or underweight cause he's been fit his whole life says I'm just making excuses for myself.
I feel like I gave a genuine explanation. To say I'm making excuses as to why I'm having a hard time gaining weight is bs. I'm really one of those people that can't force themselves to eat if they aren't hungry. I can have a snack, I rarely feel hungry enough for 3 meals a day it's almost always 2. Idk why I'm like that I just am. Having fast metabolism on top of that does me no favors.
You can't say that I'm just not trying hard enough cause you aren't my doctor and don't know my medical records? Aitj?