u/Double_Transition804

Ive been married 13years (43m to 39f). The day to day and looking after kids is all good. but im lonley. A couple of years ago she maybe sees lonley? and i had to adjust and i did, but it seems as i adjusted, she shut off. its been 2 years now of intimacy advances from me being accepted once a month but its all on her terms. i kiss her i pleasure her. I may seem selfish but 2 years of one sided trying to be a couple has really worn me down. no amount of me talking, asking, being open works. and the worst is she seems happy with the situation. i dont want to be one of these people writing a post saying lonley for 2 decades....