u/DovahQueen664

Hiiii all, I’m 22 yo and I’m not totally sure who I am. I’ve been on and off with the thoughts of being trans for yearsssss. Like since I was 10. I’ll go through month phases of feeling like I should be a girl and then phases where I feel like I’m a cis man. What makes it even harder is I can’t fully explore it because I have a gf. We’ve been together for almost 5 years and I know she’d break up with me if she ever knew. I’m also not sure if I just want to wear feminine clothing sometimes or get my nails done and just stuff like that. What should I do? Tell her? Explore somehow in secret? If anyone has any advice or has had a similar experience I’d love to hear from you! Thanks! :)