u/Downtown-Picture-909

Husband is stoked and I’m terrified. Do we tell our family so early?

We just had our very first positive test yesterday morning, at about 4 weeks from last period. Immediately, felt the panic and anxiety, not about being a parent but wanting the baby and myself to be safe, healthy, and okay.

My husband is PUMPED and part of why I love him is that he balances/calms my anxiety. I shared with him the likelihood of MC in the first trimester and he was shocked. He was taking the only positive thoughts direction, it’s going to work out, etc etc.

With today being Mother’s Day, we are hosting my family for a lunch. He is suggesting to tell them but I’m feeling nervous of sharing the good news so early and jinxing it. I did share with one of my best friends last night and it did help with balancing the excitement and nervousness. Any advice?

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u/Downtown-Picture-909 — 1 month ago