I need advice
So I 40f have been dating this guy 50m since maybe April. We’ve seen each other about twice a week, sometimes more. Maybe been on 13 dates or so? Not really sure on the number, anyways he seems really great. A bit introverted. Our chemistry is off the charts and that’s wonderful. But I’m afraid the chemistry might turn this into an off balance relationship. How do I keep this from becoming mostly about sex? Also, at what point do I bring up where this might be headed? I asked him about how he feels about exclusivity a couple weeks ago and he said he would never pressure anyone and that he wants things to unfold naturally. I get that… so then is the best way to bring up how this relationship is going by asking if this is purely sexual? Or is that too blunt? Idk if he is still dating anyone. I’m not. I dropped all the guys I was talking to, to give this a fair shot.