u/Downtown_Coast9064

Blushing

Interested to hear folks thoughts.

I am 40F and work in a field when I have to interact with different departments and different levels of paygrade from top managers to the frontline staff.

I have noticed blushing in male co-workers in different situations. One was a new co-worker so I figured he was overly self aware at the time being new to the role. Second is my immediate boss, he is conventionally very attractive, I am not interested in the slightest but I seem to make him blush when we are in a meeting and I speak to group. Third is a top manager who blushes when he spots me in the room, in a large group, I get a shy smile and a big flush.

I am not asking this in a ‘do you think they are attracted to me’ question (though curious I suppose) but more of a point of interest in the different reasons for blushing.

To add- I am not conventionally attractive, but I believe I am friendly and a likeable personality.

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u/Downtown_Coast9064 — 11 days ago

Hi folks- I think I may have had a bit of an epiphany re my endo and wanted folks thoughts.
Bit of background first, I have suffered since puberty and eventually when I said the magic words to my GP (we would like to start a family) I eventually got a lap and turns out I had Stage IV. All went well, pain reduced and had two lovely daughters.
However, first daughter’s birth was traumatic. Won’t go into details but I ended up with a epidural. When the feeling came back in right leg, nothing in my left. I have been left with foot drop, altered sensation and numbness in my left foot.
I am wondering if this could be endo related with my sciatic nerve? I saw a neurologist and he was very dismissive and said it would get 99.9% better in 12 months, nearly 6 years on that is not the case.
Could the trauma of birth and endo on my nerve be connected?
TIA

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u/Downtown_Coast9064 — 20 days ago