Help pls😅 I need advice from trans men who have dated cis men about my sex life
This is gonna be explicit and in plain terms (not pornographic at all tho) so if ur not comfortable with that pls don’t read this
I’m genderfluid and my one gripe with my current sex life with my bf (cis guy) is that our sex stays and feels the exact same regardless of my gender at any given point in time. He’s never bottomed before we started dating but he wants to and we’ve tried a couple times but it just wasn’t pleasurable. He’s been looking into it and has found that there’s some “training” involved in the learning curve. I think that will help a lot but im a switch so even when I wanna bottom I still want it to FEEL like gay sex if that makes any sense. My issue is less about the positions and more about the energy yk? How do i like increase the gay vibes LMAO Im not explaining this well but i want to be able to have piv sex without it feeling emasculating. I hope you guys know what i mean and have had similar experiences. Any and all advice and clarifying questions are appreciated.