u/Downtown_Video_5217

A couple weeks ago, she came to visited me in my hometown. It was amazing. We agreed a 3-month period for her to go to therapy and see some improvements.

A week later, she broke up with me out of nowhere. I was devastated. It happened almost 20 times last year. This time I said enough and I told her it's over now. I won't take her back.

I was begging for her to go to therapy for an entire year and she has always made stupid excuses like "not now, maybe later". Come on. Show me some respect. Don't try to put up with a pwbpd in a relationship without their commitment to therapy. It won't work.

It hurts, I love her, but it isn't enough. Loving her won't do the inner work she has to do. It relies on her and she didn’t it. Then I'm out.