For the first time in the best part of a decade, I don't know my ex's address, I don't know her number, email or have any mutual contacts.
The last discard was over a year ago, the last of many. Hoovers usually followed weeks or months later but not this time. I believe her move enabled her to move on this time.
It's a strange feeling. The relationship wrecked my mental and emotional wellbeing and I was not going to attempt to reconcile. I know all about trauma bonding but I got some comfort knowing she was "there" even if neither of us ever contacted the other again.
Now there's no trace. It's added another layer to the grief.
I guess it shows the danger of not removing all contacts from my devices post discard. Had I done so I wouldn't even know.