Trust Allah
I’ve personally been stumped for a while, I tried really hard for two years after matching residency. I got burned a few times, I thought things were going well but I was completely off base. One was already in a relationship and I had no idea after like a month of talking (was quite embarrassed) I kept putting myself out there, but it feels impossible to get my foot in the door. Mostly “not interested” or not even a response. In my community, the guys younger than me are now getting married.
But, alhamdulillah. I’ve been reading the Sirah and stories about other Muslims. Something I find very endearing is the amount of times the Muslims even the prophet PBUH, simply turn to Allah and trust him. Saladin at one point after putting everything into his fight against crusaders, simply turned to Allah.
So I just felt the urge to say this out loud, for everyone here and myself to just turn to Allah and trust him while doing your best. iA it works out