u/Draco_232

For context i aplready have a bachelor of biomedicine applied chem major and almost 23yrs old now and was HD for most units.

Biomed and chem jobs r incredibly boring plus dont pay as much as i expted. im considering studying paramed now. Ive always wanted to do more patient focus medicine, plus i get to skip about 8 units due to shared units. Is it worth studying?

Ive always had a high tolerance to bullshit due to previously working in sales, admin, waitering and childcare. I did consider doing paramed before i did biomed but was concerned at the time i wouldnt be ablr to do the job due to crippling social anxiety but now my social anxiety is non existent.

Im male and I simply do not find the reasoning as to why u would physically hurt someone you "love"

I want to know it from a psychology standpoint beacuse simply put it i dont understand it and this yr allready ive had to help 2 friends out of god awful abusive relarionships.

Its just devastaring and never once thought of hitingnany of my precious girlfriends. Sure ill get mad n raise my voice but ive never done shit like say ill fucking kill u or ur a piece of shit whore etc. Only times ive yelled is cuz they did something rlly wrong n i dont threaten them or anything, n i still feel bad for raising my voice to previous girlfriends even though its usually me holding them responsible for their behaviour.

But i srsly do not understsnd the whole attacking ur girl, does psychology have any awnsers as to why