(21m) I feel so distanced from my girlfriend since she started her military service.
I have been dating this girl for 1.8 years and I love her more than anything, everything was perfect but she had to join mandatory military service which she joined in start on April, she doesn't have any time there so I don't really even expect her to make time because she would be so tired but when she comes back home for a week or few days the whole day we text like 4 messages back and forth with many hours difference between each text , before we were always there texting for many many hours, it feels weird I have confronted her but she just says she is busy she is with family, I have been asking for her photos voice messages from 40 days multiple times in between and she just kind of ignores them she knows I asked but gave no reply always in everything she says she is busy I don't know when she is coming home when she is going back, I feel drained the whole time like even when she is back she asks nothing about me how I am , am I okay or wtvr , what should I do?