So I need a little advise because I am a lost to do here my wife left a little over two months ago and isnt even talking to me anymore. So for a little back story me. I was constantly at work and couldn't clean all the time but I cleaned as much as I could. I wont deny that my wife wasn't doing her part at the beginning. But when we moved into our new house it started to get rocky and tense. She started focusing on her mom advice instead of helping with the house work.She told me that her mom said she shouldn't have to do any work around the house and me as a husband should be doing all the house work. So it started arguments and conflicts between us. Then in February we got cps called on us for reason I will not disclose because it is between the state and us. But the house was a mess and we had just gotten out of church. So when they did a walk through there was dog feises and urine everywhere. I cleaned as much of it as I could. My wife freaked out and said that I should've cleaned the house better and been home more often then I am. We'll after state took our child she went to her mom's and is showing no signs of coming home. Blocked me on everything and put a exparte on me. I love my wife and dont want it to end this way. I need more advice then my family just telling me to leave her. So I wanna know if there is anyway I can save the relationship or, should I just keep focusing on getting my daughter back and cut my losses with my wife?
tl;dr: Should I wait to see if she come back and hope she doesn't do the same things we got into agreements about before. Should i let her back in my life if she try to come back to work things out with boundries or should I focus on getting my daughter back and move on from my wife.
Edit 1: thank you to everyone that has responded already and I should've explained a little better in my post. I have been doing everything cps told me to do, I also have visitation with my daughter once every week.i do accept accountability for not being home enough. I did get rid of all the animals but my dog because he use to be my grandpa's and he is constantly with me. I have cleaned the house and been in services like counseling and working on getting into therapy. I guess my question is more based on if I get my daughter back do I trust my wife blindly while hoping she doesn't do the thing before. Should I let the marriage go, or should I let her come back with boundries.