u/DragonfruitGold7876

Okay so i’ve been planning on visiting my bf in tech school in san antonio for more than 3 weeks last time i went was march. And during the time we talked about me going again. I was originate suppose to go 3 weeks ago but plans changed and got moved to last week but then it changed again which finally it will happen this week. we been talking about the plans we had and what we were going to do those days i was over there. today his mom texted me & basically asked when i was going to see him & i said this week probably since it’s been changing & she said “if you do we can go with you” i tried to say im going this week but i don’t know yet bc they just crashed my car (which they did & was the reason i didn’t go last week) & she said we can take my car, i only said that to see if maybe she would say never mind since she asked to come with me, no matter what im going to have a car available to when i go see him so the car wasn’t the problem. it just feels like our plans wont go the same way, & im kinda irritated because its been getting postponed & when it will finally happen another problem comes in, we’ve been talking about what we are going to do over there and the plans we had which i know for a reason we won’t be able to do that since it isn’t our car + who knows if her & the brother will want to do that. she also won’t have those same days off & i tried telling my bf i can go next week but he also wants me to go this weekend. im just irritated and dont want to be selfish, any advice?