men are literal pigs
edit: not all men.
found these on my boyfriends phone, convo with him and his friend. (22F) (22M). his excuse was that he was “just trying to fit in”.
you can see that his friend was literally encouraging cheating on me to see if he loved me.
- not included but they were also talking about the possibility of going to a strip club. and that all the dancers are hot, i didn’t include it cause i didn’t know if he went while he was with me, didnt ask, but it’s a big possibility because these messages are a week old and we’ve been together for more than 2 years.
edit edit: (CP) you guys can stop grilling me. yes im still with him. this is disappointing and disgusting to find. and I have NOT forgiven him. i told him if i ever found out about something like this ever again that it’s over. and i told him that he should not be friends with that brain dead marine friend of his. their conversations were disgusting and it’s terrible that he entertained it. his excuse of “fitting in” was horrible. NO ONE does this shit to fit in. and i am in NO WAY saying that this is okay. all of his friends are immature and are still in this high school mentality. he is the only one in his friend group that is in a long term relationship.
but the reason I posted this was because i am confused. hes a great partner, he was everything I could ever want, and the only person who made me feel like i was deserving of love. but finding things like this makes me question everything. i just don’t know what i should do. I love him, and he’s proven to me a million times that he loves me too, and that he wants me as his partner. and i know i should leave him because of this but i cant. I wish i had some kind of self respect, but the feelings i have just don’t go away. His comments are disappointing and disgusting to say the least. im just so confused.