Is she cheating.
After being together for almost 11 years and 4 kids later idk why but something felt off. I’m rarely wrong when it comes to my intuition about people and their intentions or behaviors. After a long time you learn even more.
We did have a split for about 6 months because she wasn’t physically cheating “yet” but definitely had the intention to do so.
We “made up” like 8 months later and have been through it like any family with 4 kids since then. We had been pretty happy I thought. Had our own big house the last few years kids are doing good no matter the struggles.
I found all this out cause she always goes through my phone and I’m like the accuser is normally got some shit to hide and did the same thing as her but I don’t hide it lol——-
She had joined a few groups on Reddit and had mentioned she had been thinking of someone she had sex with when we split up. She posted it groups for soul mates and other stuff, for her to tell me and the soul mate groups she’s thinking of this guy all the time and she can’t sleep or get it out of her head but it’s not “sexual”! Wtf am I supposed to do with that info. I feel deceived and hurt but also like wtf cause we’ve talked about it and she seems to not think of it in any sort of negative way. While I’m like you’re having long ass discussions with people about this guy. And we ain’t having sex the same, im being kept at a distance and she’s like no we are fine, I love you. as she’s been hitting the gym more and going out while her iPhone location don’t work but she keeping tabs on me… am I being a lil bitch or am I justified?