My boyfriend and I had massive fight last year because of his habit. He likes watching suggestive contents on facebook. This includes but not limited to young girls/students. He is 30years old. I also understand those girls making videos are doing it for money. But this is my boundary, and we talked about it. We manage to reach an agreement about my boundary, you can watch porn but im not okay with facebook contents. Somehow he stopped doing those things, but lately i keep seeing that he is back to his old ways. I did confront him, he said that it just pop up in his newsfeed and he watched it and so on. He did not search for it or anything. I did say that facebook runs in algorithms so I don’t really believe him.
PS. before anyone say that its the lack of sex. I always initiate for sexy time. even bj. BUT he is the one who would usually refuse.
Also told him I am more than okay of breaking up, if that is what he needed. Because why would he waste his time with me If I am not the one he wanted? He likes to watch those chinita, white skinned young girls with big boobs. I am opposite of those