My Boyfriend M26 keeps cheating on me F20 and I’m not sure how to move on.
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2.5 years now and we have always talked about our future together. After a little under 2 years of dating I found out he was talking to other women but we haven’t had too many issues since besides minor problems here and there. He is always saying how much he loves me but even the first time I found him cheating he admitting to having past traumas that don’t allow himself to feel fully loved, even knowing this I thought maybe if I love him with all I have he will chose me.
I feel like I have been the provider in this relationship and have helped him grow and I thought we were getting ready to take the next step and move in together but then when I went over to his apartment he already had a girl there and was saying he had been putting a lot of thought into it and he knows I’m still the one for him but he doesn’t want to be with me right now. To me that seems like he’s asking for me to wait for him and honestly I love him but I’m not sure if it’s worth putting my life on hold for a man. I believe he can change with time and therapy but I want to be the one for him now not 5-10 years down the line. I need to know if this relationship is still worth fighting for or if I should have said goodbye long ago?